When you’ve tried to pick up a straight guy, how many times has your mind gone blank?
Especially when you’re new to the dating game, you’re bound to be nervous and struggle for words when approaching a straight guy you’re trying to pick up.
So what’s the best opening statement to quickly win over a straight guy?
Actually, the best opening statement isn’t exactly a statement, but rather a question. An opening statement is actually an excuse to talk to a straight man, which is the prerequisite to winning him over.
Ask him about interesting things that are happening in the room or that have happened near you. It can be intriguing, it can also be explosive. Just make sure to keep it light, neutral, you can also aim for it to be funny, after all, some successful relationships happen because of the gay guy’s fabulous sense of humor.
Opening up to a straight man is imperative. He must perceive you as someone who is not there just to pick him up to lower the tension. Be friendly, listen to him, and thread his replies to keep the conversation going. You’ll practically never run out of things to say this way!
When you focus less on sex, you’ll have a better chance of picking up a straight guy fast because you’ll focus on creating a good vibe and good conversation, slowly leading him to the possibility of getting some man-on-man action, which isn’t great deal, but it’s more of a pleasurable experiment that straight men should try at least once in their lives.
