Some time ago I attended a workshop/retreat entitled “Let’s Manifest ourselves”. The information and exercises we were guided through were by far the most effective I have experienced of all the manifestation workshops and seminars I have experienced.
What made it different and more powerful was this concept: Before you can manifest or create what you want to have in your life, you must become the person who already has it.
This is called “modeling” in some life improvement schools. As you become that person who already has what you want, your vibration changes to align with your desire. And, as the Law of Attraction demonstrates, those things of similar frequency magnetize each other.
I am here to tell you that modeling is not always an easy achievement. Most of us have no idea who already has what we want, let alone what that person is like. I am in that group, and not in the group of people who know who their model is and also know everything about them.
So, after thinking about my model person until it gave me a headache, I finally realized that my model didn’t have to be a real person. That fact made the project easier because most of the people I wanted to model had some trait or belief that I found to be contrary to mine. This detail then colored the way I saw all of his other actions, beliefs, and values that he wanted to emulate…and usually not on the positive side.
Overcome that little hurdle, the next hurdle was to create my model to have a guide. This was easier, as the method I came up with is something I’m very good at: asking questions.
If you want to try this powerful technique to manifest your ideal life, or any part of your ideal life, here are some of my questions that you can use as well. They may generate new questions as you use them or you may want to change them in some way. Well, go ahead. After all, it is about creating your desires, and this creation is limitless. (This list is in female, so if your model is male, of course you’ll want to change the questions to reflect that.)
- Who is this person who has what I want?
- Is this person real or is he my creation?
- What are your top five core values in life?
- How do you prioritize when making decisions?
- What kind of groups do you belong to… or don’t you belong to any group?
- How are your friends?
- What gives you pleasure? Make her cry? Does it drive her to anger?
- How did you get what you want?
- When you had setbacks, what did you do?
As you continue to learn or create your model of what already has what you want so much, more questions will undoubtedly arise. The more details you have, the easier it will be for you to know what you need to do to become the person who already has what you want.
