Are you the complete opposite of the most confident girl in the room? When you see a guy you’re attracted to, does your confidence fade quickly? Do you wonder why men are attracted to certain women even if they don’t look like a supermodel? Is your lack of confidence causing your love life to suffer? Relax; It has happened to most people at one time or another. But there are ways to prevent it from happening again, and you can learn to be as confident as he’s ever seen.
Remember this. Confidence is sexy. Confidence attracts people. Confidence gives you an inner strength to be at ease in any situation. Confidence gives you an inner beauty that will shine through.
Nowhere does it say you have to be super cute or super skinny to exude confidence. Oprah Winfrey isn’t lightning skinny and she probably hasn’t suffered from a lack of confidence for many, many years.
On the other hand, it doesn’t hurt to look your best at all times. You don’t have to have a designer wardrobe to look good. You just have to know what suits you best. The right color, the right fabric, and the right cut that brings out your best features will do wonders for you to feel and look fabulous. And when you’re feeling good, don’t you feel like the most confident girl in the room?
Take the time to pamper yourself a little. Eating right, getting some exercise, and getting enough rest will not only help you feel good, but it will also help you look good. And don’t you feel more confident when you like the way you look?
Men love to run their fingers through a woman’s shiny, soft hair. So keep your hair clean and styled so it looks like you want to be touched. Too many styling products can make your hair look like a sticky or stiff mess. And who wants to touch that?
And it’s a fallacy that all men love long hair. While some do, many prefer sexy short hair. Think about it. Do you think any guy turned down Halle Berry when she had that super short hairstyle?
Clean teeth, fresh breath, and just a whiff of a light fragrance will also help keep your confidence firmly in place. Reeking of cigarette smoke or too much perfume will make men (and everyone else) keep their distance.
Smile. Show your warmth and approachability. Don’t stare, but keep good eye contact. Show that you are interested.
Remember the things that make you special. You are kind? Fun? Intelligent? Talented? excellent at your job Whatever it is that makes you different and special should also give you confidence.
And being the most confident girl he’s ever seen will draw men like moths to a flame.
