Is my husband cheating on me? I don’t want a cheating husband! Other husbands cheat, but mine doesn’t. If you think that, you are wrong. Did you know that 50-70% of men cheat? Cheaters have the upper hand, both trust and suspicion tend to work in their favor. This gives them the upper hand when it comes to getting away with what they are doing. There are many things to consider when asking yourself the question, “How can I tell if my husband is cheating on me?”
A cheating spouse is armed with a pack of lies that he believes to be the truth. The unfaithful husband believes his lies, this makes it easier for him to tell them. He will even make you tell lies to him, and he may not even know it.
Think about this, when he tells you to go out with your friends and he will stay home because he is very tired. When your friends ask where he is, you tell them he didn’t want to come because he’s tired of working a lot of overtime…or is he? You just covered for him and he’s probably with her right now.
So how can I know if my husband is cheating on me? Watch for some of these common signs of a cheating husband.
1. Tells you not to wait up for him when you always have.
2. You get weird text messages from friends you never knew you had. (in other words, having ‘pretend’ names on his phone that are actually his other woman).
3. Stating that he is stressed about work problems when asked about his strange behavior.
4. He’s encouraging you to have a social life and go places out of town when it’s unusual for him to suggest that.
5. Picking up extra shifts at work or working excessively longer hours than usual, or arriving early.
6. Avoid social events with you.
7. Ignore you and no longer listen to what you say.
8. Coming home from work late and always having an excuse ready.
9. Not being able to ejaculate could mean you have a cheating husband.
10. Being critical and sometimes making fun of you.
11. Sleeping on the couch part of the night.
12. A cheating husband will take a shower as soon as he gets home.
13. Make sure you lock your vehicle and always keep your keys in your pocket.
14. Starting arguments for no reason, just so you can run out of the house.
15. A cheating husband will spend an inordinate amount of time on the computer, especially late at night and early in the morning when you’re in bed. He will rush over and close the windows when you enter the room.
– But how do I know if my husband is cheating on me? Him He really might be stressed about work! This is one of the lies that your cheating husband will tell you. Let me break it down.
– He has another woman to juggle, this is what is stressful, he needs to hide this from you and that can be hard work.
– So he tells you that he is doing a lot of overtime.
– He’s wiped out of all the overtime.
– He’s too tired to make love to you.
– He tells you to go out with your friends on weekends because he is too tired to go with you.
– You never see his pay stub.
– You can’t prove he’s at work.
– He always returns your calls, because he doesn’t seem to be available to answer when you call him.
– Gives you shopping money to get you out of the house.
– You don’t go anywhere in his vehicle, he always suggests taking yours.
– She showers a lot more and always wears cologne, which she didn’t do before.
– He is offended by everything you say.
– He’s paranoid, he thinks you’re accusing him of everything.
A paranoid example of a cheating husband, you say “honey, have you seen the flashlight?” and he will reply “I don’t have it! Why are you accusing me of taking it? I don’t know what you did with it! You’re always blaming me for everything!”. Followed by him walking out of the house, getting into his car and leaving you standing there with a big question mark on your face.
All of these things could be signs of a cheating husband. Remember, a cheater has the upper hand, both trust and suspicion are on their side.
